Not more than a few days ago was
when I first believed I’ve experienced what’s called the “tipping point,” where
somebody invoked a part of my personal aspirations and believed in my ability
to tackle a challenge and be a part of the solution. Dr. Boyatzis brings up the
theory that in order for the tipping point to occur, an individual must be as
close to the neutral state as possible before being presented with new
opportunities. (Boyatzis, 2013) This happened when a new
position opened up in a small unit on base and my Flight Chiefs mentioned my
likelihood of scoring such position.
Ever since my return from
deployment I’ve been living life day by day with no real goals except for
preparing for my eventual date of separation from the military. About a year
ago was when I heard of a new program on base being started which entailed
everything that I enjoyed: being a part of a brand new solution, writing code,
and building wires (and every combination thereof). When I asked what I needed
to do to join the program, I was told that my qualifications were perfect
except for the fact that I was in the wrong career field (unfortunately the
lack of flexibility in their program prohibited them from hiring people outside
of one particular career field). When I pushed anyways, I quickly hit a wall
when local leadership told me to learn my place and that I was doomed to stay
on the flight line forever.
Then sometime in the middle of last
week was when the program recruiter started walking around different shops
asking to put up their best people who they think would be up for the job; this
time no career field restrictions. I happened to be in the right place at the
right time as I introduced myself, explained my qualifications, and immediately
the Flight Chiefs shook their heads in agreement that I would be a good
candidate. The only thing that I would have considered to have done differently was keeping up my relations with other personnel in the program as networking and knowing people helps. Hopefully I set up a good enough impression a year ago to be remembered as a worthy replacement. It’s still too early to tell what the results will be, but this event tipped me into a PEA state and I can only hope my goals and skills will be fully realized in the coming months.
References
Boyatzis, R.
(2013). 2 4 Module 4 2 The Positive PEA) and Negative (NEA) Emotional
Attractors. Retrieved 2015, from YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=197x4dmuug8
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